GENERAL MEET
Adatl) Israel Sisterhood will hold its general meetr ing Tuesday evening, Janu-afy 14th. Guest speaker will be Morry Patt, vice principal of Georges Vanier Secondary School.
HANUKA MEET
A Hanuka meeting of the Sinai Service Group was held recently at the home of Mrs. Beiijanriin Walker, at which she presided.
The annual Theater Night
will be held in May. Program conveners: are Mesdames . Carl Israelson and Barry Tobe. ticket conveners: Mesdames Beck Fields, Michael Freedman ajidRoy Ru-binoff.
Mrs. Walker litthemen-orah. Mrs. Max Katzman
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WORKSHOP .
Mizrachi-Hapoel Hamiz-rachi Women will hold a workshop next Tuesday. Mrs. Marian Bessin, chairman of the national board of the 6r-ganizatipn, will conduct the proceedings.
MEMBERSHIP CAMPAIGN
This' coming Sunday B'nai B'rith Women will conduct a door-to-door membership campaignr Among the committee chairmen are Mesdames Arnold Bensky, Murray Rosen, Henry Kamer-ling, Harold Randal, Earl Rubinoff and Arnold Stein.
HUMAN RELATIONS
Tlie Canadian Jewish News, I-'riday, January 10, |t;69 - Page 5
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GUEST SPEAKE R.Mr. Justice Samuel Freedman of the Manitoba Court of Appeal, who will be guest speaker at the dinner and evening of fellowship, Monday evening, January 20th, at Toronto's Beth Tzedec, at which time members of the Toronto Jewish legal profession will meet on behalf of the local effort for The Ivan C. Rand Chair of Law which is bemg established at Hebrew University. Jerusalem.
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QUESTION: My neighbor and I are very / close friends. We are middle aged andwe, each have two married daughters and four grandchildren.
Our relationship with our children is very similar. Very often we have arguments or heated discussions with one or th^.pther of our dau^ters. Of course, I'm upset at this, but I do try to solve it by myself-
My friend, on the other hand, always . gets in touch with the daughter riot involved, tells her what happened, expressing herself as she wants to. I don't do this because I'm afraid this mi^t cause a break between, my children. '
My friend says, on the contrary, it seems to bring them closer. In fact, she finds they always seem to protect and argue for the other's benefit. I would do anything to have the relationship between my child-dren a much closer one. ■
Do you think if I followeid my friend's method it would help?, —
ANSWER: In some ways, friends are like sisters, but with much less competitiveness and rivalry. At certain times they -may be jealous of each other, but after listening to the troubles of the other, they go home and count their blessings.
Sometimes one uses the other as a confidante on whom to pour out her troubles. Actually, it is not out of great mutual trust that they share all their private family affairs. Rather it is because they have a problem in common. Should one betray this confidence, then the other could do likewise and put her in the same humiliating position.
When sibling rivalry continues into the adult years, it is because the parent encour-
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ages the competitive behavior. ■
Your friend talks against one daughter to the other, riot to bring them together but to keep them apart. When they defend each other, theiy are really defending themselves, and telling the mother off as they ^somehow still cannot dp. directly. They side with each other in self-defense, in preparation for when the other is attacked. This is not a relationship of sisterly love.
Respect for a mother who tatties this way, first on one, then on the other, will .naturally decrease with time^ and can only result in her being excluded more and more by the children. They never know when she will talk against them to others, as she does within the family. The less she knows about them, therefore, the less she will have to talk about.
Furthermore, you can be sure that a mother who talks against her children, even to her best friend, wnll in time talk a-Hx)ut her friend, too.
THE FIRST THING YOU MUST DO TO BETTER YOUR relationship with your daughters is to stop talking about them to this neighbor. The next step is to talk things out with each one of your daughters before their angers and resentments build up to the point where they..jBxplode.|
When you have a better relationship writh your daughters, their closeness will be out of love for each other. Commanding them to do so will only serve to keep them apart.
Talking to your children, and not a-gainst them, will make you feel less guilty, and hence less driven to fight with them to expiate your guUt.
WANTS TWO WIVES
Haifa (JCNS) The Haifa rabbinical court has adjourned the application of a married man, made with his wife's consent, tobe permitted to take a second wife, who would enable him to fulfil the mitzva of peru urevu (to the fruitful and multiply).
The man, who a^Jeared in court with his wife, told the three dayanim: "I very much lave my wife and I am fortunate that my love is reciprocated. But fate has been cruel to us. My wife, through no fault of hers, cannot conceive. I therefore ask you to vpeMnit'me; with her full consent, to marry a second wife.
"1 am by no means willing to divorce her as I truly love her. I undertake not to marry a woman she dislikes. I shall ask her to agree to my choice. 1 want my two wives to love each other, so that a true idyl may prevail among the three of us."
The man's wife added her support to the husband's request. ,
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LUNCHEON CHAI R-M A N.'Mrs. J. J. Fromm, leader of Mizrachi Women, who is chairman of the Tbdah luncheon held by Montreal's Mizrachi-Hapoel Hamizrachi Women's Organization in support of Israel Bonds, at the Queen Elizabeth, Tuesday, January 14th.
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2-1/4 cups flour 4 tsps. baking powder 1/2 tsp. salt 1 cup milk Whipped cream
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Cover the prunes and apricots with water and simmer gently until tender, about 20 minutes. Cool, drain, halve and pit the prunes.
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Mrs. Green: And your oldest, Abie?
Mrs. Cohen: He's the same Abie Cohen. He won't change his name or his manner. He still is working in the same clothing store. And, between you and me, if not for Abie we would all starve to death.
STILL NOT SATISFIED Minnie was pestering her husband for a fur coat. Finally he, gave her a huiidred dollars and told her: "Go buy yourself a coat already and don't nag me." Now-what kind of a fur coat could Minnie buy for $100? She settled for a good cloth coat with a fur trim. Later on when she went to the theater with her husband, she ,;ioticed in front of her a woman wearing a gorgeous chinchilla coat. She nudged her husband and said, "See, Miax, that's the kind of ooat I wanted."
Annoyed, Max answered, "So if you wanted grey why did you buy black?"
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Mrs. Levine went into a drug store and told the clerk, "Give me two packs of invisible hairpins."
"Yes, Ma'am," answered the fellow, and he began to wrap up a package for her.
"Tell me," asked Mrs. Levine as he was wrapping them, "are you sure they're invisible?"
"You bet they are," came the prompt answer. "I sold eight dollars' worth this morning and we've been out of them for two weeks."
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'■:,. Sometimes I wonder how I'd feel if I were on a hijacked plane. And -- of course, if everybody isalright — what's so bad? ■    ' -
Like the last plane that left New York for Miami and landed in Cuba.    ' ■
Now I don't wish anyone the feeling that poor mother had when her baby was held hostage. Gutt zull oontz oopheeten (God should watch over us).
But,, say, if a'nice man told us politely we're going to Cuba when our tickets were for Miami, what's so terrible?
It's better than stowing away. Because then when you're caught, you have to pay and rght back home you go.
But an unexpected trip to a warm, sunny climate — forgetting the politics it's tahka (really) an experience.
If you're kept there a few days, your lodgings are paid for and you can see the place.
.And the first place I'd visit would be Moishe Pipick's. Did you ever hear of Moishe Pipick? It's a Jewish restaurant that's become a landmark. It exists from way back when. Every tourist goes at least once to Moishe Pipick. What a ball!
Of course, they'd have to put me up in a iirst rate hotel. Because the average place is infested with great, big, black cockroaches. La cucuracha! It's the climate that breeds them. It can't be helped. In fact, they're such a part of the scenery, that if you don't come across one you miss it,
♦ ♦ • ♦ * Another place 1 wouldn't mind being hijacked to is California. I always wanted to see San Francisco. I hear it's so quaint. And if I could go for nothing — why not? And Los Angeles, San Diego. Then when you're there, you wish you were home. People are the same all over.
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Can you imagine one day teing hijacked to the moon? There you could spoon in June all you want. But what planet will be casting its glow over you?
♦ ♦ * ♦
But if you're lazy you'll never get the chance to be hijacked. 1 know a lot of people who won't go anyplace. They stay rooted in one spot.
They figure, "What's the big production, going someplace? You can see all the sights in the movies and on television."
Maybe they're right. Who knows? They avoid crowds, the tooml (noise), they don't have to bother with currency exchange.
Naturally they could, God forbid, be six feet under for all the fun they have.
Of course, it's good to talk when you're safe in your own home. On second thought, I wouldn't wish anybody to be hijacked. If you want to go someplace you pay your way, even if it's to Cuba.
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So where would you go these days? To Europe? With storms and snow knocking the place over?
To Israel? Openly, yes; privately, I'd hesitate.
To Miami? You could be hijacked.
To the Catskills? I can freeze at home.
To Quebec?. My English isn't so hot so go yet and worry over French,
Nu, we'll wait and see. By accident this crazy world could stand right side up again.
(Copyright CJN, 1969)
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