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LOVE_have IMpeffectlons. c" , . I
Th's type of. beha~Jour whe~e μe .1
-grasp desparately to •. Iov~d one ← l
Is not .true love but Infatuation. ’ It Is out of fear and ne~d that we ‘ |
love, Instea~, of lettl~g ~ovε grow I
and develop over tlm~. love, un- 1
like Infatuation, takes time and !.
patience. If we do not let the r
。ther person know. what we are feel-
lng, It can destroy the relatlon-
ship. Therefore, you ha~e ‘to be
hones 1. You 에III be amazed 'at
h。“ 900d It feels to open up and share y~ur feelings 에Ith someone.
They wl,11 appreciate your openness because I t will allow them' to be open too and to share THEIR vulnerab II i .vt
J u I y 12, 1980
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.COPING ‘~.Have you noticed a difference In
”iyourse1f ln the i4ay v。u behave?
The folIo베ng paragrap~smay sound lIke a cl rche but when one Is In-
fatuated w~thanother, ’1: s-l not
hard t~~bserve the follow‘n9 symptoms'.
Maybe, aetsnl of your fast steady Sleep, you keep seeing the same familiar face bef~re your eyes which keeps you awake all night?
Whenever .you see "that" ,ralucLtrap.
tace, yourl heart throbes, your face
~edden, ,y。니r eyes spark Ie, and. you' find yoJrself smiling? Then, you have been eaten alive by a disease
bug called, "10ve bug". Once you are singled out by this lIttle
"bug’" the symptoms wi ’ I remain with you for a long', long tIme (if not )llleeverof .
They call It vitamin L. If you get too little. your heart 애rehtl away. your 'eyes lose their sparkle and your steps its bounce. Sure
you are stili breathing, but is
’t worth it? A life without the love you need and νant is lifeless. It does not have to be that 닝av
써e can otrnwodi-tLs a daily feast of love. But first we have to know
ahR t I 。ve rea 1l y i s •
To me, love is the total acceptance of another person. Love is a relationship in which we feel safe
and accepted no matter 애hat we do, and we feel special to be ourselves. “hen someone loves us totally, they have no expectations or demands.
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If a person says, ’ love you" or ’'You are beautiful", you think
"I don't deserve it". You tsiser the love because you cannot value yourself for what you are, because Y9~ cannot think of yourself as
worthy, and you canna‘t value any。ne else's positive estimation of yourself.
νhen you love yourself. you feel completely satisfied‘ You feel
good about yourself‘ you gr。“ t。 love another person and you receive the love instead of resisting. However, this article was based on only MY opinion and ex-
pcriences‘ therefore feel free t。 respond with your own thoughts.
Editor
by C.C.
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니hen we first begin to love someone, everything is new and lkraps ing.
니e try to hold on to that sparkle, to structure it because we are afraid of 10sinQ it. But the minute we try to hold on, we destroy the
relationship. 나e tend to hide our normal actions because 뉘e want t。 impress the other person to maintain that sparkle or magic feeling. 닝e become afraid of showing our
: true feelings of qnieb open and
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As I have stated before, I thInk Korean-Canadians have co~mon problems that should be shared ‘Ith others. Older
Korean-Canad I ans, I th I kn
are much more reluctant to ask for hetp or advise from others. Many of them are not usually wilting to openly share their problems with others.
This is quite understandable but at the same time I feel if we’can all openly share some of 。ur common problems 납e could minimize the damages that they may cause. The problems that I am referring to may have sdme-
thing to d。 납ith parents,
~eneration gap, siblings or
fr‘ends. νhatever the case may be we will do our best to give
you some viable solutions t。
your problems. This column “ill not be of any use to anyone unless you readers can be open about your problems. Sharing
.톨ne 's P!.Q.브1ξm!i νIth otherε is
.톨ot only benlflclal to oneself but it νIt I help other
people ‘ho may be having the same type of problems. This paper needs you readers to take a more active part in the Challenger. We are printing this section of the paper
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