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DR. ROSE N. FRANZBLAU
The Conodion Jewish News. Fridqy, September 14, 1962 — Page
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QUESTION: I have been married 10 years to a fine man. We have three children, and a nice relationship e.vists in the home, e.x-, cept for one thing. My husband is a small wage earner and we have to struggle very hard to make ends meet. 1 work at times to earn e.xtra money He objects, but not too strenuously.
He started college, attended over a long period of time and did verj' poorly in spite of his intellectual abilities. I am now pressuring him to return to school and finish so he can get a belter job. He has taken on additional part-time work. He feels that he would not make a success of school and is reluctant to return. He is trying, nevertheless, to be readmitted.
1 don'p know if it i.s worth the .sacrifice in the time away from home and the money, lost if heTails again. How can I help I him to be good at school? ■ ANSVVER: Unfortunately, there are many gifted people who have not been given the gift of self-confidence and assurance and hence operate on a level that is far beneath them. Such psychological inability us-uallv comes from premature, outsized demands and expectations of parents. When parents themselves have not felt fulfilled in their own lives, they will sometimes pressure their child to give them what they never could get for themselves.
The child is placed in conflict. He wants to satisfy the parents' wishes and yet he is resentful of the great demands which they impose upon him. He comes to feel that the parents are more concerned with their own pleasure than with the satisfaction of his needs. Since he judges them to be selfish and self-centred, he does not feel badly when he disappoints them.
In Ills adult years, this type of grown-up may still act like a little boy in search of himself. He is never quite sure what he wants to do or what kind of career he wants to follow. He may either wander from job to job. or if he holds one job. he mav operate on a ver>' mediocre level. To him, it lb just a temporary way-station on his jouiney of self-discovery, which never gets off the ground but which goes on forever.
Although you no doubt appreciate the fine qualities of mind and character that your husband has, there is also no doubt that you are disappointed in what he has
thus far been able to accomplish. Perhaps j when you fell in love with him, you felt i that your love would be sufficient to motivate your husband to do his very best. You may have fancied that you would be able to remake him in your image of what you wanted your husband to be. However, thb person to whom such wishes are directed feels prodded and pushed just as he did in his parents' home.
The pressures you are exerting on him make him feel like a child who has to be told what to do. In questioning the soundness of your own educational plan which you project for him, you practically invite failure.
Like everyone else~ who has not finished
the job and achieved his gqaUJie probably^ _ wants very much to-retu'rn to school and wind up successfully. However, your lack of confidence in him, plus his own fear, makes him hesitate. Unless this atmosphere is changed, he may well waver and fail again. A college education is no guarantee of a better job or of being able to hold a good one, if the person is full of insecurities.
It is hard for a person to operate at his best when he feels that his studies are depriving his loved ones, who have to make great sacrifices so that he may find himself. Only the thought that, when he is finished, his family will have more than now and will be compensated for their sacrifice can sustain him and ease his guilt. It does not help when you regard your husband's return to school as a questionable investment, and worr>' about whether you will ever "get your money back."
Fortunately, it is never too late to clear up the emotional situation which causes such vocational maladjustment and confusion, and to help the person find himself..
Your husband could use some expert vocational advice and guidance. Let him contact the Federation Employment and Guidance Service at 42 E. 41st St., Manhattan (ORrgon 9-4900). They test the person and then advise and counsel him on the basis of the results. They not only help him to decide what he wants to do but also help to place him." More healthily motivated, he will fulfill himself and do better,by himself and for his family.
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PINE-MINT SAUCE
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Add sugar to contens of can of pineapple. Cook 5 to 10 minutes, or until slightly thickened, stirring occasion-I'nally. Remove from heat; stir in extract. Cool, Serve over vanilla ice cream. Makes 3 cups sauce.
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BvRUTHIE
There were times when Mama; used to zifts (sigh) and say,
'"Sit skverr tsu zein a Yid! (It's hard to be a Jew).
But that remark was made just to get, maybe, something out of her system. No matter what the obstacle was, she clung to the ways of her mother and mother's mother—with pleasure.
I remember, for instance, how she went about her preparations for making gefillte (stuffed) fish. Thursday morning would find her bright and early at the fish store, critically examining the live fish bouncing in the tubful of water. Whichever had more spunk and looked fattest she selected.
The poor thing would be fished out in a huge net and immediately beheadedjj'he first few times Mama fainted at the sight. But then she got used to it.
Like someone bringing back a trophy from the war, she carried her prize home. Then came the fun. Ugh! I could never imagine how she could stand it-splitting the side, cleaning it. scraping off the scales, skinning it, then choppitig it, I was interested only in the result: a ball of fish that was tahm gemiyclen (taste of heaven).
I swore I'd never eat a piece of fish if I had to go through that routine. Thank goodness, though, times have changed. Now it's not so hard to be a Jew.
First of all, today where can you find a fish store with a display of live fish? In fact, who says you have to make gefillte fish like that anymore? I use the phone. 1 ask tor so much and .so much mixed fish, have it minced and sent home. The preliminaries are
taken care of. From .then on it's a ball.
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How about the butcher? The first years of iMama's married lile,.she bryught home chickens un-plucked. As a chicken flicker7she excelled. But then she became a lady. For ten cents the fowl was plucked at the butcher's.
1 go even further. My butcher koshers it for nie,
and the rest becomes automatic.
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I wish some of my ancestors could see our dinner table. If they were pious, they'd look askance.
"What, in an orthodo.x home, butter and meat on the table!"
But they never heard of parava (neutral: for dairy and meat) margarine!
Personally, I can't stand the sight of it. Our traditional customs are embedded too strongly in my blood. But my kids like hot corn buried under gobs of butter. So what better solution than to serve it. with margarine as a side dish to meat? It's permissible and everybody's happy. ,
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Now- it's parava milk. It makes me gag. But for those who like it—fine.
I amend Mama's expression. "It's good to be an orthodox Jew. Vusfaylt unts (what's missing?)"
(Copyright Canadion Jewish News, 1962)
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