WORKING OUT DETAILS — Worker* In th* trode orvJ profession* emqs of Toronto's T963 United Jewish Appeal cash campaign met recently at the homo of Samuel Zeldin. co-chainnon. Shown here, (left to right), ore: Morris Emer, Oovfd Kronl^ Monny ICotr, end Bernard J. Persiko.
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An intensive canvass of trades and professions con* tributors to Toronto's 1963 United Jewiish Appeal will be continued in order to obtain cash paymtats of pledges to this year's campaign, it Avas announced by John R. Devor and Samud Zddin, chairmen of the Cash Campaign*
TIm: drive is being conducted "in response to urgent requests from overseias agencies for cash to assure continued, unabated opac^.-tibn of their rescue and
relief programs".
According to Mr. Devor and Mr. Zeldin, the purpose of the drive is to bring in "every dollar on every pledge made so that we can help meet acutely pressing financial obligations overseas for the relief, rescue and rehabilitation of thousands of Jewish refugees and distressed men, women and children in Israel and other coxmtries."
The statement stresses that needs in those countries have been outrunning thi:
SISTERHOOD COUNCIL DESIGNATES NOVEMBER 10 "BLITZ DAY FOR BONDS" — Members of Toronto S ynagogue Sister-hoods will be out In force on Sunday, November 10, to participate in what has become a tradition for Sisterhood Council — the onnuol "Blitz Doy for Bond Collections". Volunteer workers from all Sisterhoods Will coll on members of their congregations who purchased Israel Bonds at the High Holy Day Appeols but have not as yet paid for them. This vitol work of cash collection ensures that Israel will be able to put these funds to work immediately on the urgent development projects now underway in the Negev. Workers will convene at the Israel Bond Off ice at 9 a.m. on Sunday, Nov. 10, to receive their Collection Kits, end will moke their calls for four intensive hours, from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m. Convening the project will be Mrs. Ralph Zomon-sky. Sisterhood Council Bond Chairman, and her Co-Chaimrian Mrs. Charles Appel. Shown here are a group of Sisterhood Bond Chairmen at the planning meeting for Blitz Day held at the home of Mrs. A. Levy. (Left to right standing): Mrs. Harold Brown, Bond Chairman, Kiever Cong; Mrs. Sol Swartz, President Shaarei Shomoyim; Mrs. Harris Lindsay, Co-Bond Chairman Beth Tzedec; Mrs. Michael Kugler, Co-Bond Chairman, Shaarei Shomoyim. (Left to right seated): Mrs. Dan Sloven, Bond Choinjian, Shaarei Shomoyim; Mrs. Bernard Weinberg, Bond Chairman, Beth Tzedec.
RELEASE RABBI HANANEL
London. (JCNS) - Rabbi Dr. Asher Hansnel. Chief Rabbi ol Bulgaria, has been released after •even inonths In prison. It is reported: l?y a traveller recently returned from Sofia, who interviewed Rabbi Hananel there.
He said that Rabbi Hananel told him that he had only "recently" been i released. (In January, 1962) It was reported that Rabbi Hananel had been sentenced to three and a half years* Imprisonment for alleged cur-ttacy offences.")
B'NAI B'RITH
Wilson Heights Chapter arid Lodge, 3*1181 B'rith, are spoa-
sorlng a Mexican Fiesta on Saturday night, November 23nL Principal door prlte is an aU-expense IMay trip to Mexico for two.
The evening will offer dinner, dancing, games and other draws which include such prizes as a portikble typewriter, ladles' car coat, vim's slacks, theater passes.
Proceeds will support such activities as the chaj^r's after noon daycare session at the Jewish Home For the Aged, Sun-nybrook Hospital, the Cerrtral Palsy Fund, Retarded CWldren, Blood Donor. Clinics.
Conveners are Lil Bluesteln and Sam Wagman.
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HUMAN REUTIONS
Mother Is Wrong
QUESTION: How does one ease the heartbreak caused by a vicious letter from a daughter? — •-.
Relatives tell me to write her again, but I know her crackpot attitude and I cannot humble myself anymore.
She is the oldest, 35, divorced, remarried, and living out West Thqr have four children-
She has been neurotic all her life, even as a baby, ciTing all the time.
My other three daughter, all married, live there top. They write and visit us at times. This daughter visited us with her fomily once. Period. T went to see her once — but never again.
When I didn't hear from her after the birth of her latest child. I phoned, telling her in a mild way that I was worried. Shie practically screamed at me for bdng so "unreasonable." I wrote, after she wrote me — pomting out that I know what it is to have four children but that she hits a nice, kind, helpful husband, whereas I hadn't, that SHE can leave the children hi the backyard, whereas I had to take them out, so she can't tell me about hard
tunes. The result? Her instiltmg, abusive letter.
I practically knocked mysdfout raising her. She was always a handful and a big pain to me when she married the first
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ANSWER: Babies am not bom neurotic. But the way they are handled or mishaitdt ed by a .troubled or- hostile parent, can make them so..
A parpt' cannotuse her age, status, or what she has done for, her children as an excuse for making unr^easonable demands. Stories of what the parent suffered in
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order to survive do not make a child feel any better or more appreciative. They only evoke feelings of gmlt for being more fortunate, and resentment for being made to feel guilty. The youngster does not feel responsible for the parents' iriisfortunes, or feel called upon or able to make up for them.
At this happy time in your daughter's life, your call seemied like a demand for . consideration of you, rather than a message of love for her. Your follow-up letter telling her how you had to solve your problems all alone, only added validity to that feeling, implicit also was the message that because of your stiffering, her life has been made easier, and that she should show her gratitude to you for all this.
Sometimes when there is not too good relationship between husband and wife, the mother looks to the new child to make up to her for thie disappointments in the marriage. She gives to the child what she does not give to her mate and then expects from the child what her hus-bMd withholds from her. Finally in adolescence, the youngster rebels to make up for all the years she dared not tell her mother off.
Your daughter needs to hear /^yhat joy her happy mirriage has brought you. It cannot help youc, relationship io be/told what an unloving husband you had and what an inconsiderate father he was tp ber.' '■■■)•■■'■
If you want her to share her happiness with you, you cannot behave like a deprived orphan who is in competition with her grandchildren for their mother's and attention. '
availability of funds, particularly in Israel, where Jewish immigrants, have been entering at a record rate for the past 40 months. Their entry has created a giant backlog in housing absorption and social service needs far beyond the capacity of Israel's people to meet without extraordinary financial aid from North American Jews.
''The newcomers entering Israel cannot be turned back", Mr. Simon declared. "But we shall be Jetting them — and the. people, of Israel — down if we do not take every step necessary to meet oiir share of the costs of providing the housing, medical help, education, job retraining and' employment which will enable them to become absorbed into the economic and social life of that country."
Mr. Simon pointed out also that "France where 110. 000 Algerian Jews have found refuge since 1962, is today a center of increasing need." According to the Joint Distribution Committee, requests for relief by Jewish refugees from Algeria have doubled in the last two months and will quadruple in October. As of now, one in every six repatriated Algerian Jewish families is registered with Jewish welfare agencies, 3,000 families in the Paris region alone. Sharply increased aid requests to Jewish organizations started when the French Government's 12-month repatriation subsidy program began to run out at the end of Juner-
"What makes the situation lu-gent," Mr. Simon declared "is the fact that agencies overseas do not have the cash resources in hand to cope with the relief needs that are now multiplying so astronomically".
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Classes In Hebrew
Toronto's Keren Hatarbut has begun Its fall and winter classes on November 5th. Classes are being held on Tuesday mornings, afternoons and evenings In the New Zionist Building.
Classes range from Hebrew I for beginners through Hebrew vn for students of tradlUonal H*rew writing and conteinpo-rary literature.
In the Ulpan method, formal classroom instruction Is supplemented by Informan gatherings arranged for various levels at regualar Intervals in a social atmosphere. Many parents have fouiul the Hebrew course of va-lue In helping them to work along with their children as they progress in their Jewish education.
ONTARIO '
Notice of Initial
PUBLIC HEARINGS
on briefs concerning "
MEDICAL SERVICES INSURANCE
Preliminary public hearings will be held as foHowst
Windsor—Council Chamber, City Hall
10:00 am. December 3 and 4'.
Toronto—Galbraith Bldg., Um'versity of Toronto 35 St. George St, Room 202-202A 10:t)0 am. December 11 and 12 10:00 am. January 7 and 8 10:00 am. January 14 and 15 10:00 am'. January 21 and 22 10:00 am. January 28 and 29
These are initial, tot final, hearings. Briefs will be presented by a responsiti officer of the organization concerned or the individual v/ishin: .o make the submission, or their legal counsel. Participants may have expert witnesses appear for then.
Participants rnH be asked to present only the summaries and conclusions of briefs as well as their recommendations. They are free to elaborate c rally and offer arguments. Persons appearing befc.: the Enquiry may be examined directly by the members of the Enquiry.
Persons submitting briefs arc pcmitted to introduce at the hearings supplementary infonnatica and matwla? in written form. These, to'. : known as exhibits, will be, filed with the Commission and numbered in order of presentation-
REMINDER—Briefs (25 copies) on the proposed Medical Services Insurance programme must be submitted by November 15th to the Secretary.
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